Love God, Love Others
We love, because He first loved us.
1 JOHN 4:19
11/1/20159 min read
The Israelites were freed from slavery in Egypt, but God did not immediately bring them into the Promised Land. Although the journey from Egypt toward Canaan could have been completed in a relatively short time, God intentionally brought them to Mount Sinai. There, He taught them how to live as a people who had been set free. He gave them the Ten Commandments and established the Tabernacle, teaching them both how to live in obedience to Him and how to approach Him in worship. This gives us an important picture of the Christian life: it is one thing to be set free, and it is another thing to learn how to live in that freedom. Salvation is God's work of delivering us from the bondage of sin, while sanctification is the continuing work of God in transforming our lives so that we increasingly live according to His will. God does not save us merely to leave us as we were; He saves us so that we may know Him, love Him, and live for Him.
Opening Prayer
Heavenly Father,
Thank You for setting us free through Jesus Christ. Thank You that salvation is not only about being delivered from the bondage of sin, but also about learning to live in the freedom You have given us. Teach us to understand Your commandments, to know Your heart, and to grow in holiness.
Lord, help us not to fall into legalism, thinking we can earn Your love through our works, nor into licentiousness, using Your grace as an excuse to sin. Instead, help us understand that because You first loved us, we can love You, obey You, and love others.
Transform our hearts, Lord. Give us a deeper love for You and a greater desire to follow Your ways. May Your Word guide us and Your grace change us so that our lives will reflect Christ.
In Jesus' name, we pray.
Amen.
DEUTERONOMY 4:6 So keep and do them, for that is your wisdom and your understanding in the sight of the peoples who will hear all these statutes and say, ‘Surely this great nation is a wise and understanding people.’ 7 For what great nation is there that has a god so near to it as is the Lord our God whenever we call on Him? 8 Or what great nation is there that has statutes and judgments as righteous as this whole law which I am setting before you today?
The purpose of God's commandments was not merely to give Israel a list of restrictions. God's Law revealed who God is and how His people were to live as His representatives before the nations. Their obedience was supposed to demonstrate that they belonged to a God who is righteous, wise, near, and different from the gods of the surrounding nations. In the same way, our lives should give people a picture of the God whom we worship. What distinguishes God's people is not simply what we say about God, but how His truth transforms the way we live.
The Ten Commandments is still relevant to us today.
MATTHEW 22:37 And He said to him, “ ‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ 38 This is the great and foremost commandment. 39 The second is like it, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ 40 On these two commandments depend the whole Law and the Prophets.”
Jesus summarized the entire Law in two commandments: love God and love others. This shows us the heart behind the Ten Commandments. The commandments are not ultimately about religious rule-keeping; they are about relationship. The first four commandments direct us toward loving and honoring God, while the remaining commandments teach us how to love others. Therefore, love is the foundation of obedience. We love God because He first loved us, and our love for God becomes visible in the way we treat other people. Loving others is the external manifestation of our love for God.
But when we talk about obedience, we must avoid two dangerous extremes: legalism and licentiousness. Legalism says, “I must obey the commandments in order to be saved,” or, “I must keep obeying perfectly so that I will not lose my salvation.” Licentiousness goes to the opposite extreme and says, “I am already saved by grace, so obedience no longer matters.” Both are wrong. One makes salvation dependent upon human performance; the other uses grace as an excuse for sinful living. The biblical answer is neither legalism nor licentiousness, but grace that produces loving obedience.
ROMANS 3:19 Now we know that whatever the Law says, it speaks to those who are under the Law, so that every mouth may be closed and all the world may become accountable to God; 20 because by the works of the Law no flesh will be justified in His sight; for through the Law comes the knowledge of sin.
The Law was never given as a ladder by which sinful people could climb their way into heaven. Its purpose is to reveal our condition and make us accountable before God. The commandments show us God's holy standard, and when we honestly examine ourselves, we discover that we cannot perfectly meet that standard. Even the commandment, “You shall not covet,” exposes something deeper than outward behavior because covetousness is a sin of the heart. We may control our outward actions while still struggling with sinful desires within. The Law therefore tells us something extremely important: we do not merely need better behavior; we need a Savior.
GALATIANS 3:24 Therefore the Law has become our tutor to lead us to Christ, so that we may be justified by faith. 26 For you are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus.
The Law leads us to Christ because it shows us our inability to save ourselves. When we see our sin, we realize that we cannot become righteous before God by our own efforts. We need Jesus. We are justified not because we have successfully kept the Ten Commandments, but because we have placed our faith in Christ. Through faith in Jesus, we become children of God. Therefore, our relationship with God begins not with our performance but with His grace. We do not obey in order to become God's children; we obey because, through Christ, we have already become His children.
Yet this does not mean that God's commandments have become irrelevant.
JUDE 1:4 For certain persons have crept in unnoticed, those who were long beforehand marked out for this condemnation, ungodly persons who turn the grace of our God into licentiousness and deny our only Master and Lord, Jesus Christ.
Grace must never become an excuse for sin. If someone says, “God has forgiven me, therefore I can live however I want,” that person has misunderstood grace. Grace does not give us permission to return to the bondage from which Christ saved us. Grace changes our relationship with sin. We are no longer slaves who must obey sin; we are children of God who have been given the freedom and power to live differently. To deliberately use God's grace as an excuse for ungodliness is actually to deny the authority of the One who saved us.
TITUS 2:11 For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation to all men, 12 instructing us to deny ungodliness and worldly desires and to live sensibly, righteously and godly in the present age,
Grace brings salvation, but grace also instructs us to live differently. Biblical grace does not merely forgive our past; it transforms our present. It teaches us to deny ungodliness and worldly desires and to live sensibly, righteously, and godly. This is sanctification. God does not simply remove the penalty of sin; He begins transforming our hearts so that we no longer want to live under the power of sin. Our willpower alone cannot accomplish this transformation. We need the grace of God working within us.
JOHN 14:15 “If you love Me, you will keep My commandments.
Jesus gives us the proper relationship between love and obedience. He does not say, “Keep My commandments so that I will love you.” Rather, obedience flows from love. When we truly love Christ, we desire to please Him. Therefore, Christian obedience is not primarily motivated by fear of punishment or an attempt to earn God's favor. It is a response to the love and grace we have already received. Love is the motivation, and obedience is the fruit.
ROMANS 13:9 For this, “You shall not commit adultery, You shall not murder, You shall not steal, You shall not covet,” and if there is any other commandment, it is summed up in this saying, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” 10 Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.
This brings us back to the central principle of the Ten Commandments: love. When we genuinely love our neighbor, we will not deliberately steal from him, destroy him, deceive him, covet what belongs to him, or commit adultery against him. Love does not abolish God's moral law; love fulfills the heart and purpose of the Law.
MATTHEW 7:12 “In everything, therefore, treat people the same way you want them to treat you, for this is the Law and the Prophets.
Let us think beyond ourselves. Our natural tendency is selfishness. We often ask, “How are they treating me?” and then decide how we will treat them. But Jesus teaches us to take the initiative: treat others the way you want to be treated. Christian love is not merely reactive. It does not say, “I will be kind if you are kind to me.” Biblical love takes the initiative to do what is right even when there is no guarantee that the other person will respond in the same way.
LUKE 6:27 “But I say to you who hear, love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, 28 bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.
This is far beyond ordinary human love. Human love naturally loves those who love us, helps those who help us, and welcomes those who welcome us. But Christ calls us to love even our enemies. Why? Because Christian love does not depend upon the worthiness or behavior of the other person. It flows from the character of God. If our love depends on how people treat us, then our love remains self-centered. But when our hearts are secure in God's love, we can love others even when they do not love us in return.
1 JOHN 4:20 If someone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar; for the one who does not love his brother whom he has seen, cannot love God whom he has not seen.
Our love for God must be demonstrated in our love for people. We cannot claim to love the invisible God while deliberately hating the people He has placed around us. Our relationship with God must eventually become visible in our relationships with others. This is why sanctification is not merely about avoiding certain sins. It is about becoming a person whose heart increasingly reflects the character and love of Christ.
1 JOHN 4:19 We love, because He first loved us.
We do not manufacture Christian love through sheer willpower. We receive it from God. We are able to love because God first loved us. When we continually seek from people the love, approval, acceptance, and affirmation that only God can ultimately provide, we become disappointed, demanding, and self-centered. But when we understand that we are already deeply loved by our heavenly Father, we become free to love others without constantly demanding something in return.
MATTHEW 7:11 If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give what is good to those who ask Him!
Our security comes from knowing that God loves us and cares for us. Therefore, when we do good to others, we do not have to demand that they repay us. When someone is unkind to us, we do not have to become unkind in return. When someone fails to appreciate us, we do not have to stop loving. Our ultimate expectation is not from people; our expectation is from God.
We have been saved by grace, and we are being sanctified by grace. The Ten Commandments reveal God's holy character and show us how we are to live, but they cannot save us. The Law exposes our sin and leads us to Christ. Christ saves us by grace through faith, and that same grace begins transforming our hearts. We do not obey God to earn His love; we obey because we have already received His love. We do not love others because they deserve our love; we love them because God first loved us. We do not overcome sin merely by trying harder; we overcome as our love for Christ grows stronger than our love for sin and self.
Therefore, the Christian life is not “obey so that God will love you,” nor is it “God loves you, so obedience does not matter.” The gospel says: “God has loved you and saved you by grace; therefore, love Him, obey Him, and let His love flow through you to others.” That is the journey from freedom to sanctification. God brought Israel out of Egypt, but He then brought them to Sinai to teach them how to live as His people. Likewise, Christ has rescued us from the bondage of sin, but He continues to transform us so that our lives increasingly reflect Him. Grace saves us, love motivates us, obedience demonstrates our love, and sanctification makes us more like Christ.
Closing Prayer
Heavenly Father, thank You for saving us by Your grace and for loving us even when we did not deserve it. Thank You that through Christ, You have set us free from the bondage of sin and have made us Your children.
Lord, help us never to use Your grace as an excuse to disobey You, nor to think that we can earn Your love through our works. Teach us to obey You because we love You, knowing that You first loved us. Continue to transform our hearts so that our love for You will be greater than our love for sin and self.
Help us to love others—not only those who love us, but even those who hurt, oppose, or mistreat us. May Your love flow through our lives so that people will see Christ in the way we speak, act, forgive, serve, and care for others.
Father, continue Your work of sanctification in us. May Your grace save us, Your love motivate us, and Your Spirit transform us to become more like Jesus every day.
We surrender our lives to You. May our obedience bring honor to Your name and may our lives become a testimony of Your amazing grace.
In the mighty and loving name of Jesus Christ, we pray.
Amen.
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